My little Angel

First stop--Day Care

....not so sure about all of this....

...a little cautious....

I think that I remember you...

Oh yeah....you are the grandma's!

See what I can do now?

Look how strong I am, Grammie!

Laughing with the "Screaming Greemies"!

This is going to be a fun birthday!!!!!!

More tomorrow!!!!

Grammie heads to Minnie tomorrow!

...more memories of September 2006....

"Babies are such a nice way to start people..."

Into the world and loved immediately...New Mommy Jenny and Owen-- day one. : )

Tomorrow can not come soon enough....

Grammie and Owen, September 2, 2006...7 lbs. 13 ounces....

I will be in Minneapolis tomorrow...holding my now 22 pound grandson! He has grown so much from the tiny infant of a year ago...which just means more to hug and love!

More to come from Minnie in the next few days...

September 1, 2006

As hours old Owen's tiny hand grasped my son, Adam's finger, the whole meaning of all of this came to light.

This connection is the real meaning of the circle of life.

Even though many births occur every day....when it happens in your family, there aren't words to truly describe the feeling.

Watching my first born son hold his new son brought tears to my eyes. It was a feeling of completion unlike anything that I have ever experienced before.

My mind raced back to a time thirty-three years ago as a very nervous 26 year old headed to the hospital in anticipation of giving birth.

I can still remember so many details of that day...the monitors which allowed us to hear the baby's heartbeat as well as letting me know that contractions were starting. (Like I needed a monitor to tell me that!)

Back then we didn't know in advance what the baby's sex was (we did the nursery in yellow to be safe!) so the announcement that "It's a boy!" was so exciting.

As we counted the fingers and toes, we cried tears of joy as we held our new son, Adam.

What a miraculous moment.

It was just as miraculous watching Adam hold his first child, a son, Owen.

The family tree just grew another branch...

Looking back...

On September 1, 2006, a little 7 pound, 13 ounce miracle occurred in my family.

My first grandson, Owen, came into the world kicking and screaming much to the whole family's delight.

As I get ready to fly to Minnesota this Thursday (!!!) to be a part of his first birthday celebration, my mind is going back to those moments just a year ago...as I reminisce and smile...

For those of you who have taken this journey with me through my blog, I hope that you won't mind looking back with me as I recall the incredibly joyous (and overwhelming) feelings of becoming a first time Grammie!

Owen, on his first day of life....

Good Grief, Charlie Brown!

It rained in Birmingham!!!!

What a great rain we had here yesterday afternoon! While it will not end our drought, it was music to my ears to hear it pouring outside!

Even Linus looks stunned... : )

Gary, Michael, Carole, Dave, Sherri, David, Sharon, Ellen and Jerry

Arthur, Joycie and me

"...friendship multiplies blessings and minimizes misfortunes; it is a unique remedy against adversity, and it soothes the soul." Baltasar Gracian

I love celebrating with my friends.

Last night we toasted my dear friend's 35th wedding Anniversary with fine wines, great food and wonderful friendship and love.

One couple opened their house to the event and the rest of us all helped in making the dinner...and, it was delicious. We started out with thinly sliced cheese and pears, shrimp, onions and peppers, and tomatoes and fresh mozzarella. The main course consisted of grilled tenderloin of beef, glazed salmon, individually stuffed red potatoes, cold broccoli salad, homemade mushroom bread and farm stand tomatoes and Vidalia onion slices sprinkled with fresh basil and olive oil. We sipped on some wonderful Pinot Noir wines to compliment the delicious meal. YUM! It was quite a feast.

As I look over this picture of this group of my friends, the rich history of these relationships stands out in my mind. We have all shared life's joys together: as we started our families over thirty years ago; as we watched our children grow up; as we have celebrated 30th, 40th, 50th, 60th and even a 70th birthday together; we have watched and nourished the relationships as we have become a "family" of sorts.

We have been there for each other through the years even when things got tough: through illness and misfortune; when loved ones have passed on, through divorces and other losses and held each other's hands and hearts in these bad times.

As I look at the beautiful faces from last night, I can't help but smile as I think about how each of us has our own little quirks...and these have not changed through the many years of friendship. The difference now is that we can laugh at ourselves with the inevitable acceptance that comes with growing older. This is who we authentically are and we are loved because/in spite of these individual traits.

Of course, we can continually surprise each other at times when we step out of our comfort zone and do something entirely uncharacteristic. Suddenly, after so many years of not getting back on an airplane, I am now traveling quite frequently and flying all the time. This continues to surprise even me...but, it is something that I needed to do.

All of these dear friends have grown in their own ways throughout the many years of friendship...and the rest of us are consistently there to cheer one another on... as we take these important, and sometimes difficult, steps in our lives. We always know that we are not alone as we go on our individual journeys...

In this crazy world that we live in, it's comforting to know that we have each other.

And,when you think about it, isn't that what friendships are really all about?

As our worn-out weatherman repeated the toasty (and redundant) forecast again for today, there was a glimmer of hope.

Instead of reaching the 104 degree temperatures of the past few days, we could expect a high of only 99 today! woo hoo

....A "cold" front must be moving in...

Getting up as early as I can to take my morning walk, I pass a few other brave souls out there as we are all thinking the same thing..."Can it get any hotter or more humid out?!?".

The air is so still and oppressive and not much real relief is in sight.

It saddens me to see the parched vegetation all around the area as most plants are shriveling up and dying from the heat and lack of rain.

The lush green of the summer months has been replaced with crispy, brown withering leaves...if there are even any leaves at all.

In the meantime the central part of the country is dealing with horrific flooding and torrential rains.

Oh, if we could only turn the world upside down for a day or two....we could so use their rain and they would certainly benefit from our dry heat....

Addendum to today's post...

It rained! It rained!

This afternoon we got a short, but sweet, downpour as a storm passed through the area!

Of course the cable, computer, and phone went out as did power in some areas....but, who cares?

We got rain!!!!!!

Hallelujah!

Ya gotta laugh when the rooster crows.....

"Our five senses are incomplete without the sixth - a sense of humor." Anonymous

Sometimes laughter is definitely the best medicine for what ails us.

Such was the case this morning as I talked with my mom on the phone.

As she gets ready to turn 85 this year, she is noticing that her mind is not as sharp as it once was. (To me, she is sharp as a tack, in that she seems to remember things so much better than I do and she still completes a crossword puzzle every day.)

So, while we are talking, I am outside rationing out a dribble of water onto my dying shrubs and plants and I come upon her favorite plant but I can't think of the name of the flower.

Neither can she.

I begin to go through the alphabet saying names of flowers A-Z. We are hysterically laughing.

When I got to "H", I was thinking that it might start with that but all I could think of was Hyacinth and that wasn't it.

While we are talking, she summons my dad to get the other phone and call my Aunt Ruthie in New Jersey in that this particular flower abounds there.

"HYDRANGEA" he exclaims and my aunt concurs.

Problem solved.

Now, suddenly mom starts to laugh and says: "Oh, there goes the rooster again! It must be 11:16."

Before I could get too concerned, she explains.

Because of mom's macular degeneration, my sister's and I purchased her a watch that can say the time out loud for you when you press the button. For some reason, a little rooster alarm is set to go off at 11:16 a.m. every day and she cannot turn that setting off.

Thus, the reason for the rooster crowing this morning.

Again, laughter.

Mom is also feeling like her hearing is going so we both began to chuckle as we tried to find some humor in her plight. Yesterday, she was hearing a musical sound in one ear as well as echos.

"Was it Broadway music at least?" I asked, hoping that it was something enjoyable.

"Oh no," she laughed, "more like just a loud and annoying sound."

She feels that one by one she is losing her senses (pun intended!)

I can't argue with her on that one.

And..........

I think that it might be hereditary. : )

Thanks for the laughs, Mom.

My pottery "STRESS" box

 

I was just saying to one of my girlfriends yesterday: "Why do we all make life so complicated?".

It's true.

Maybe it is my age, but it seems as if everyone that I know has so much "drama" going on in their lives lately. One thing gets settled and *pop!* another one takes its place. It's a neverending cycle.

And, some friends seem to get more than their share of "issues"-- even though they are totally non-deserving of them. It boggles my mind.

I know the old saying: "God never gives us more than we can handle." but I do wonder sometimes if He gives us more credit than we deserve.

: )

simple pleasures...

"There is nothing stronger in the world than gentleness." Han Suyin

Don't tell Dave, but I love these two pictures that I took of him with Owen in New York...

It makes me smile to see this very tender side of him as he bends down to give Owen a chance to touch the flowers in the garden. : )

The Cherry Tomato Caper

First, I was asked to babysit a bicycle.

Next, Dave asked me to take care of his tomato plants....which I have diligently done.

Even though it has been so dry here, I have managed to keep these three plants watered.

The yield of cherry tomatoes, however, has been slim to none. We have removed and eaten only a paltry handful of tomatoes so far...when instead we should be overflowing with these little red morsels.

So, "Where have all the flowers tomatoes gone?" we asked.

This morning, the answer became very clear.

Camera in hand, I managed to catch the culprit along with the evidence.

For the answer....see below.

Maybe tomorrow I will put out miniature salt and pepper shakers!?!?!

"You watched WHAT?!"

The latest craze among 6 to 14 year olds* is the "High School Musical" series, Part One and, the recently released, Part Two.

The sequel was so widely (and wildly!) popular that it debuted as the "most watched event ever broadcast on basic cable" as 17.2 million people tuned in to view this show Friday night.

....*6 to 14 year olds.... AND one just-about-to-turn-59 year old Grammie! (I can hear my grown kids groaning all the way down here in Alabama) : I

Having heard so much about this, I decided to see what all the excitement was about, and turned on to the Disney channel yesterday to watch a little of High School Musical 1.

Two hours later I was tapping my toes and humming along with the catchy songs as I realized that I had watched the entire show!

The boy and girl leads reminded me so much of a young, and more hip, Frankie Avalon and Annette Funicello...(Boy, am I dating myself!) This talented duo (Zac Efron and Vanessa Hudgens) have become overnight idols among the teeny boppers...and aging Boomers.

What can I say?

I guess that I am just a kid at heart.

: )

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Dave says that the story gets a bit more dramatic each time I tell it...but, I swear to you this is exactly how it happened.

Yesterday afternoon I was dislodging the dust from the vacuum cleaner filter by going outside and gently tapping banging it against a tree.

Innocent enough, right?

Little did I know that the tree was home to an ornery swarm of yellowjackets who were very protective of their dwelling!!!

Suddenly, I was covered in angry, stinging critters.

They were stinging me through my exercise shorts....on my arms, my neck....

OUCH!

It seemed as if they were all around me relentlessly coming in for the kill! (OK, maybe I am adding a bit of drama here-but you get the picture, right?)

I went screaming into the house....yellowjackets still swarming around me....they were everywhere, including in my hair!

I ripped off my clothing and jumped into the shower in a complete state of panic.

All I could think about was: "Could I go into anaphylactic shock from their venom?" (If you do have an allergy and this occurs it will happen almost immediately)

Fifteen minutes and eight bites later, I realized that I wasn't going to die from this....

...but, it was frightening nonetheless.

I called Dave at worked and frantically asked him to look up "multiple yellowjacket bites" online. (What did we do before computers????!!!)

He began to ask me: "Can you breathe? Are you slurring your words? Are you having trouble swallowing?" "Are you feeling lightheaded?".

I was actually absolutely fine until he began to ask me these things....suddenly my mind began to think that maybe I was having these symptoms. (Funny how that happens!)

It turns out that taking the shower was a good thing....following that I did 10 minute intervals of ice on the bites....put a solution of baking soda and water on....and took two aspirin.

And, here I am, alive and well, to tell my story.

: )

Friday...

Again, I got up extra early to take my walk outside. And like yesterday, it was already hot and steamy.

I told some fellow walkers that it was like the "world's largest sauna"....they agreed as they "sweatily" (not a word, right?) trudged on.

I know that I could walk on my treadmill in the air conditioned house, but I truly enjoy my outside walks so much more. So, martyr that I am, I will continue to persevere until either rain or autumn arrives...

In the meantime I am looking ahead to August 30 when I will be heading to "Minnie" (what my son and his wife call Minneapolis--either that or "OWENapolis"!) to celebrate Owen's first birthday!!! I can't wait to see that little sweetie again and give him some Grammie love. : )

Just for fun I put our faces on the newest Jib Jab video...if I can get it to work, I will try to download it to my blog today.

It's good for an "end of the week" laugh.

Happy Friday everyone!

Grammie and Owen do the Disco!

"I'm melting, I'm melting..." (Wicked Witch from the Wizard of Oz)

"Baby, it's hot outside!"

I attempted to beat the heat today by getting up earlier and taking my morning walk around 6:30. *yawn*

Whoever thought that one would think that temps in the 80's would be "cool"?!?!

This blistering heat continues in the Birmingham area with temperatures today forecast to hit 105. It is a very serious situation here as we have had triple digit temps for nine days in a row now.

One of the things that caused us to buy this house thirty something years ago was the magnificent and varied landscaping. As the days go by and the water restrictions stay in place I am having to sit and watch everything begin to dry up and die. It is very sad.

The bad news is that there is a new Hurricane that has formed that is heading towards the Gulf. They are saying that this could potentially become a strong storm by the time it makes landfall. The only positive thing would be if it could just eventually bring some much-needed rain to our area...

I can't believe that I am actually encouraging a hurricane to come our way.

The heat must be getting to me....

Aagh.

"Man to Man"

I loved watching Dave with Owen during our trip to New York.

In this picture he looks as if he is saying one of the following:

1.) How about if you and I skip out of this banquet and go to McDonald's?

2.) So you see, there are birds and there are bees and....

3.) Let's sit down and I will tell you some things that I've learned about women....

4.) Who do you think will win the World Series this year?

5.) Now Owen, when you get a girl to your crib here are some moves that you can make....

6.) I bet that you can't wait until you can pick out your own outfits even though the shirt that you are wearing today is pretty cool.

7.) I could sure use a nap, how about you?

8.) If you really want some attention all you have to do curl that upper lip and begin to cry....they women will come running.

9.) Uh oh. Dirty diaper?!?!?!?!?!

I love ya, kid.....but this is where I hand you back to your mommy....

Dearest Owen,

I am still remembering the small delights that you and I discovered together up in Skaneateles.

I watched your fascination with the water when we bathed you in the kitchen sink. Your sense of wonder was so enchanting as you reached out to feel this lovely sensation of streaming water.

Still covered with remnants of your sweet potatoes from dinner, you were oblivious to the washing and hair shampooing that was being done to you as you sat and explored.

With all of the technological stimulation that surrounds us these days, it was so refreshing to stop and see the world through your eyes.

I hope that you don't ever lose that wonderful ability to seek out the simple pleasures in life...

I love you,

Grammie

"Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated." ~Confucius